How does one succeed in life?
12.06.2025 00:42
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Making more friends is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Have you ever lied to your family? What were the circumstances?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Procrastinates a lot.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What was your embarrassing moment in front of your father-in-law as an Indian daughter-in-law?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Does not procrastinate.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
What is the gayest experience you have seen in prison?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Do not set goals—set systems.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What I need from you?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How does it feel to watch your wife get fucked hard?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
That's it for today.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Why are people with Asperger syndrome unenthusiastic?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Ask yourself:
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.